Why your female partner doesn't want sex - and what you can do about it
If your partner has low desire for sex, it doesn’t necessarily mean she has a ‘low sex drive’.
Like something is wrong with her or her body.
It normally means:
SEX IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR HER TO BE MORE INTERESTED
You may be focusing on making sex exciting, hot, passionate, fun, and giving her orgasms.
And all of that will not give her good enough sex.
There are normally three reasons sex falls short for women:
SEX IS JUST NOT GIVING HER MUCH
Some physcial pleasure or adult fun mean little to her.
SEX IS JUST HARD WORK
Sex depletes her and it is just too hard is on her body and her energy - for not much in return.
You need to be doing something a lot more enriching, easy for her and revitalizing.
SEX FEELS DISCONNECTING AND OBJECTIFYING
It feels mechanical, like a job, pressure and a routine. She feels a distance, she doesn’t feel close to you - or she may even feel used.
SEXUAL TECHNIQUE IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH
The technique is just not good enough to engage her sexual body fully, so she a lot less that she really dreams about - she is disappointed and that doesn't keep her very interested.
To make her more interested, your lovemaking will need to change in all these four ways.
You can't hope that you will just continue with the same sex but some sort of switch will flip and she will want it more.
To want it more she needs to get better sex.
To fully understand the issue and how you can change her desire for sex, read the Fix for women. It will explain to you the issues in more detail:
If you want her to be more interested in sex, this involves creating a whole better practice of sex.
For this reason it is not possible to give a guide to ‘how to create more desire for sex’.
You need to learn to give her better sex.
The best place for that is the entire Advanced Sex course.
It will create for her the entire practice that will make her want sex.
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( *These guides come with a lot of techniques from Holistic Sex and will improve your sex beyond this problem. This is reflected in the price. This is also why you get a discount if you have already purchased Holistic Sex - just sign in.)
