*This guide will help if you have learned Holistic Sex and want to introduce your partner to it. However, if you haven't learned Holistic Sex you can still use this guide and benefit from many strategies and tips on how to generally guide your lover in any sex: how to involve, encourage and correct your lover, and how to communicate, explore and build a sex life together.

People won’t come into your life already knowing how to make love in the most amazing way.

It’s a world of full of bad ideas and bad information.

Once you know how you want sex to be - how do you transfer that knowledge to your partner?

Everyone has those worries:

"What if they don’t want to do it this way?"

"How can I explain - you can’t talk about sex!"

"No one wants to be taught or instructed"

"Everyone reacts badly to requests or talks about sex"

"There is too much to show and to teach, I just couldn't do it"

"It ruins the moment, it just doesn’t work to ask for things in sex"
 

Etc, etc

None of this has to be true.

None of this has to be difficult.

This guide will tell you everything you need to know.

LOOKING FORWARD TO THE FUTURE POSITIVELY

• Why you don’t need to find someone who is already ‘good at sex’ - and you can still create an AMAZING sex life. This makes your pool much, much bigger.
   
• Why it’s NOT true that men don’t listen, don’t want to talk about sex, or are offended (even though maybe you’ve experienced that). 
   
• Why it’s NOT true that men don’t want the kind of lovemaking that women want.
   
• Why it’s NOT true that sex is difficult to fix if it doesn’t work.
   
• Why your previous unsuccessful attempts didn’t work – and how it can go differently now.

MAKING A RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU CAN TALK, ASK AND SUGGEST

• How to make talking about sex normal, easy and not intimidating to anyone.
   
• How to make a relationship where you both enjoy talking about it.
   
• How to make your partner relaxed and excited about learning new things in lovemaking, instead of feeling anxious or threatened.
   
• (Optional) How to get your partner to read Holistic Sex, and how to make it comes across as:

-    lighthearted and exciting
-    not threatening 
-    not a lot of work and effort
-    very valuable and interesting for your relationship

‘TEACHING’ AND GUIDING

• How to move out gracefully from established routines in sex.
   
• How to lead your partner with your energy during sex, without even teaching or explaining.
   
• How to change your partner’s sex just through your own lovemaking.
   
• How to guide your partner during sex without making it awkward.
   
• How to teach your partner techniques in a lighthearted and sexy way without getting too serious.
   
• How to suggest new practices in an exciting and non-threatening way.
   
• How to make interesting sessions of lovemaking but make them an opportunity for you and your partner to learn.
   
• How to integrate it all into a normal flowing sex life so it is not heavy.
   
• How to fix and correct bad sex gently.
   
• Specific ‘recipes’ on how to deal with classic things men do in sex, e.g. rushing, being too hard, pressuring you to orgasm, etc.
   
• How to have serious chats about difficult issues in the most gentle way.
   
• How to stop being afraid of their reaction.
   
• How to reconcile the conflict of ‘their taste’ vs yours.
   
• How to make your partner always feel good about their improvement and learning.
   
• And how to make constant learning in your sex life normal, exciting, interesting and natural. For both of you. How to keep it going forever and never stop.