YOU DON'T NEED TO WORRY ABOUT THE MENOPAUSE FOR YOUR SEX LIFE

It doesn't have to change your enjoyment of sex in any significant way. 

Sex drive may change in some basic biological way - maybe you won’t get some hormonal horniness, or maybe you won’t get so fired up by even a clumsy touch at the right time of the month.

One thing may change:

CRAPPY SEX WILL FEEL EVEN MORE CRAPPY

BUT YOU WILL ENJOY GOOD SEX JUST AS MUCH

BUT SEX HAS TO BE GOOD

You are still the same person who makes love with your partner.

Your body can feel all the same things.

You as a person love all the same things in sex.

You can do all the same things. 

I have worked with many post-menopausal women and have not noticed any difference at all in how they feel sexually compared to pre-menopausal women – when the woman’s body is approached right!

Your body is just as alive.

It can feel just as much.

You can enjoy sexuality with just as much richness and beauty as ever before. 

What does happen is your body starts rejecting STUPID SEX.

And it responds a lot less to BAD SEX.

So someone going hungry for you and trying to force passion – yes, maybe your body won’t react so much.

Someone just treating you roughly, penetrating aggressively, moving too vigorously – yes, your body might reject that more now.

Someone expecting you to just get horny without any good effort to turn you on – yes, it’s probably less likely to happen - and why should it anyway?

Someone doing stupid things for arousal and expecting you to be on 7th heaven – yes, you probably won’t engage.

Someone just working your body as a machine, trying to get the orgasm reflex to release – yes, maybe your body doesn't want to do this stupidity now.

Your body wouldn't even accept this kind of attitude from yourself now.

A past-menopausal is a woman who really, really gets good stuff in sex now - and is not longer ok with crappy stuff.

There isn’t so much you can get away with now by riding some hormonal sexual turn-on.

You may not be ok to receive bad sex, bad foreplay, bad stimulation - and still feel really horny and find it all as easy as before.

You may also need to be more careful with your body and make it more comfortable because of the physiological changes.

It all just means that good sex is no longer optional - it is the way sex has to be for you now.

But if it is good you will respond just as well to it.

When it comes to conscious lovemaking, consciously treating your body how every woman’s body needs to be treated – you’ll find you haven’t lost anything.

You and your body - you need quality now.

You don’t want to have stupid sex just for the sake of it, and it won’t work so much.

Your body needs better energy, conscious touch, love, nourishment, sensuality, connection.

You need to feel a deeper side to making love - something more enriching, connecting, nourishing, loving and soulful.

Then you will find that you have a very rich experience, you are completely and fully alive as a sexual woman, and there is nothing you have lost.